传说，吴越王妃戴氏，是个孝顺女子，每年寒食节必回临安郎碧娘家省亲。一年春天至春色将老，陌上花已发，王妃还没有回来。钱鏐抑制不住内心的思念即修书一封曰：“陌上花开，可缓缓归矣”。欲催归而请缓，念人而转惜花，虽婉约却实大气！这个当年曾命三千铁弩射回八月钱塘江潮的一世之雄是何等的霸气，待到他因思念爱人而写下最美的信札时后人又见其千转柔肠。“In me the tiger sniffe the rose”这诗句于钱鏐最恰当不过了。
初次读着“陌上花开，可缓缓归矣”，心里荡起一圈又一圈暖暖的涟漪。田间阡陌上的花发了，你可以慢慢看花，不必急着回来。英雄气概、儿女情长，莫非就是如此？豪情万千的英雄君王，竟有如此细腻的爱情。欲催归而请缓——娘子啊，你慢慢看花，慢慢回来吧。我想你了，又怕你赶回来累坏身体——所以，你慢慢看花，回来吧。
咀嚼着千古芳香的文字，体贴文字中细水长流的爱情：如此体贴、如此思念、如此温柔。
Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I–
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
