I watched the movie during my study-break today. I was glad that I have the honors room to myself because I had to dry my eyes so many times (imagine doing it in the library).
The movie wasn’t perfect, there are loopholes and parts I didn’t quite get. But the love was oh so beautiful. The lead actress Rachel McAdams was so beautiful, the laugh lines around her mouth and the sweet, warm love in her eyes made me fall in love with her too. As inconceivable the idea of time-traveling is, the story emanates a bitter-sweet vibe that makes you ache for the couple. I couldn’t stop crying when I watched the loss in Clare’s eyes and body language whenever Henry had to vanish into another time frame.
Like what many reviewers said, I’m glad that the movie didn’t go all Hollywood-ish and start on the science of time-traveling. There was some talk about genetics and electromagnetic waves, and how stress/alcohol triggers time-traveling, but that was that. The story and the love was much more important. This is a love that people these days long for but are hardly able to manage themselves. How many would spend a lifetime waiting for your loved one? It seemed so much a thing of the past, where a beautifully old lady go about her quaint little country cottages, knitting, gardening and cooking broth while waiting for her lover from 40 years ago.
A love that goes beyond temporal satisfaction or material comfort. Henry could never promise Clare that he would be there for her forever. He cannot even know when he will disappear or when he will come back. He lived knowing when he will die. He disappears when he is stressed or excited – on his wedding day, in his marital bed, whenever. Clare gets angry too, she gets frustrated, she gets bitter. But at the end of the day, she loves him still. (In the book, I hear, she waited for him right till she was 70 and dying – he appeared, in his 40-year-old body and she loved him still.)
Even as we were moved to tears by this story, we sometimes don’t really know why. But let me guess, don’t we, at the bottom of our hearts, wish we have someone who would love us regardless of whether we are always there for them, whom we love equally deeply? Someone who doesn’t stop loving us even if they are angry with us, even if we can’t give them the best kind of life they are entitled to? Don’t we wish that our loved one would touch our faces like Clare did to Henry and tell us, despite their own aching heart, that they love us?